Single ladies Saturday night out! The grass isn't always greener!

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Everyone is so judgemental about why a lady is single. Sometimes you’re interested in the guy and he’s not interested in you. Or vice versa.
Maybe your just not meeting the right people in the wrong circles. You hate online dating. Some are too old and some are too young!


But one thing I have noticed is the grass isn’t greener on the other side. I may not have a plus one to an event, or I may go to the movies alone. I actually enjoy my own company. It’s better than sitting across from someone you have nothing in common with. I’d much rather focus my attention and energy on bettering myself.

Let me tell you about other people’s lawns! I see women putting up with their man’s bullshit all day everyday.

You can’t have a pet! Those are the rules. What did you say? I can’t have a pet? What kinda guy doesn’t like a dog? Not the guy for me. And, she agrees to this to live by his rules, under his house.

I need a man that has a job! This is not negotiable! I work 3 or 4 jobs and you can’t work one? I come from a long line of people who work for a living, and your a grown ass man with no job? This is unacceptable! So I am at work and your out playing? Sorry, no deal!

Rich guy that wants to give you the world but you’re not interested. You can have all the money in the world and if their is no attraction it doesn’t matter how much money you have. I’d rather have less and keep my dignity and respect than sell myself out for luxury! Boring!

Sneaky men are the worst! Shows up once in a while than disappears! Don’t bother!  Having someone who says what he means and shows up! It takes a different level of who you are in life to become a different person. Some men haven’t reached that level in their lives! So they can not possibly show up for you in yours! Do you understand this? Your just not in the same place.

If you’re a single lady like myself and that right guy just hasn’t come along, you just keep doing you boo! Take care of yourself, live your best life and keep chasing your dreams! He may turn up when your least expect it! If he doesn’t you are still living your best life!

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